I just happen to think that the mans word should be the final word. What I know about a submissive woman apparently isn't much, lol.
I certainly would hope that you would want a man that did fully respect you.
However, that decision would be gained by use of your insight as well. If I'm making A-L-L the decisions, couldn't that be interpreted as indifference on your part? Hey, who is up for a little less salt and butter on the next batch? Brat, In reply to "On the other hand wouldnt mind "playing" the part of a "do as your told" sometimes."This part I totally understand, and do like that some women want that in certain situations. A true dominant male doesn’t feel the need to be degrading towards his partner.
And if so, would that necessarily be good for the relationship? He will in fact respect her and treat her with dignity.
He will want her input in decision making and listen to her opinions.