Pros and cons of dating a married man
It's nice once in a while to let the man take the lead, but it shouldn't be a power struggle.You both have something equally to give one another.I always seem to date guys between 10 to 20 years older than me, and from my relationships comes some of the best memories and experiences.
I had a normal childhood, but I have been living in the “adult world” since I was a kid. I was around adults all my life — events, parties, meetings — so I really knew it no other way.
The only thing probably missing in my life is a partner, a published book and an owned property… To elaborate even further, I'm an only child, and growing up, I never had many close friends. I was teased and picked on a lot from the kids at school. I guess that's where I began the attraction for the older man type, and it used to freak my mother out.
I have nothing against guys my age; I have tried dating them, but I have constantly come across the following:– They're not ambitious enough, or they don’t have a go-getter attitude.– They're not financially stable.– They still want to date around.– They have had baby mama or ex-wife drama.– They don't have their sh*t together.
I'm not saying every guy in my age group is like this, but overall, my personal experience hasn't been fulfilling for me.
And if you really think about having a happy and strong family you need to quit it all right away and find a partner in accordance to your needs and plans for the future.