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The L word is absolutely forbidden in this relationship right now.

Avoiding the extremes of being either the Ice King/Queen or Mr/Miss Clingy is a delicate balancing act when it comes to dating someone for the first time, especially when playing it cool might leave you frozen out in the cold, says Sloan Sheridan-Williams Acting desperate in any situation is not a good look, but this is especially true when it comes to dating.

When you see him you’re excited, but you don’t want to act too excited. You know how many people play the label game and play it cool when they actually feel more about their partner? In the end he didn’t think she cared about him and left her. In her mind if she played it cool it would make him want and desire her. Men like and respect women who define what they want. I don’t want to date anybody else.” I respect someone who speaks authentically, and is open about what they want. If you’re an authentic, powerful, strong, Hot woman, you shouldn’t play it cool if you want more. Then it’s time to sit down and have a heart to heart with the guy.

It is important not to answer immediately every time, as this can make you look like a convenience not a catch, but you don’t want to keep him or her waiting too often as this can be misconstrued as disinterest.

Rather than trying to keep his interest by playing hard to get, ditch this waiting game and cultivate a genuinely varied and busy life.

Often people who take longer to answer are putting too much thought into how they look, which means they are being ruled by primitive and superficial drives such as ego.

There is a careful balance between being cool and acting cool.

Less is more Another tactic often used to play it cool is to be vague, or even secretive, however, it is much better to be authentic and drip feed details about yourself.

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